How to ask someone to see a doctor about their memory loss

Experiencing memory loss can bring a range of emotions for the person experiencing memory loss and their loved ones.

To talk to someone about their memory loss, plan the conversation in a quiet setting where you can listen and speak compassionately.

Schedule a time and place

Memory loss is a sensitive conversation for everyone involved that will require your full attention. Try to schedule a time when everyone can be present in the conversation.

The location should be quiet, familiar and free of distractions, such as their home residence.

Listen and speak with compassion

Think about what you will say in advance to make the conversation easier.

Maintain a gentle and reassuring approach, reminding them that you are there to support them.

It may be helpful to start the conversation by asking them how they feel about their health and if they have noticed any changes in their daily habits.

Encourage them to see a doctor

Dementia is a sensitive topic. It may be best to not suggest dementia but instead suggest that it may be time for their annual wellness appointment. Explain that a doctor will talk with them to help them identify what is causing the symptoms and offer to go to the doctor with them.